Not Your Average Housewife

While I am definitely not a housewife (or anywhere close), I couldn’t help but feel like I was playing the role of a fabulously-dressed, nontraditional housewife as I pushed my grocery cart through aisles filled with potato chips and tomato sauce.

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This idea that women are the ones who do the grocery shopping for the family is still pretty prominent, but us millennial women are reshaping this role every day. We are quickly moving from the ones who bring home the groceries to the ones who bring home the dough. Thank god I’m not bringing groceries home anytime soon or my imaginary children would be eating a diet of purely potato chips.

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It ended up being quite ironic that I chose to wear this home-sewn jumpsuit for this photo shoot. Sewing used to be just another chore listed on the “to-do” list of a stereotypical housewife. However, it has now shaped itself into a hobby rather than a chore; a hobby many women unfortunately do not have the skill or desire necessary to learn.

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I have been sewing since I was 8 years old. The moment I picked up a sewing needle I knew it was something I would be hooked on for life. There is something so magical about being able to construct your own clothing and see your own designs come to life. In our modern age, those who know how to sew (like me) are those who are extremely passionate about art and design. It is something that is no longer viewed as a common skill but rather as a talent and an art. Just look at our society’s fascination with the television show “Project Runway”!

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This jumpsuit has quickly become one of my favorite things I have sewn because of its vintage vibes and perfectly tailored fit. I was able to find this ’70s-inspired plaid fabric at my local Jo-Ann Fabric store and the hardware at M&J Trimming in New York City. I modified McCall’s Pattern #7626 to include the buckle and grommet detailing.

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Don’t let gender stereotypes keep you from pursuing a hobby that you love. This is the age of change and breaking out of the gender roles that society assigned to us centuries ago. If you want to grocery shop in the most fabulous jumpsuit you own, who’s stopping you? If you are a man and want to learn to make your own suit jackets, who’s stopping you?

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The only answer to those questions is yourself. We are the only ones that limit ourselves to the roles society wants us to mold into. We are society and we determine the shape of these gender molds. Reshape your own mold. Get out there and break those gender roles.

Lipstick: Nars Pure Matte                                                               Earrings (similar): Forever 21

Jumpsuit: Madison Mae Designs

Similar Jumpsuits: Forever 21, Honey Punch, Banana Republic

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The Science of Being “Cool”

What exactly does being “cool” mean to you? Does it mean you have the most friends? Does it mean you are always the center of attention at parties? According to Google to be “cool” means to be fashionably attractive or impressive. So, as it turns out, being cool has nothing to do with your social status but everything to do with the way you dress.

I think we can all agree that we all feel our coolest in clothing that we feel is stylish or unique from anyone else’s. Everyone wants to be positively perceived by others and many people often count on their looks to make a radiant first impression on someone. Each kind of style has its own connotations. Of course I believe a person should be judged on their personality rather than what they are wearing, but this just proves how powerful fashion can be.

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While many people consider fashion to be superficial, I see it as a way to shape other’s judgements of you. There are billions of people in the world that will never get the chance to talk to you and understand your emotional depth, so why not try to show this through your clothing? After all, hundreds of people pass by you and eye your look up and down every day, so give them something to look at that sheds light on who you really are.

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The brain actually has a part dedicated to processing what is “cool” and “uncool”, called the medial prefrontal cortex. This part of the brain processes what it sees and connects it to one’s social emotions. So yes, it is true that when we dress our best, we feel our best (Bain, “The neuroscience of ‘cool'”). Cool actually equals confidence.

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We all have those lazy mornings when we would rather skip the makeup and hair styling for ten extra minutes of sleep. I have been guilty of this a lot this summer; waking up at 6am and commuting two hours to work is definitely not an ideal situation. However, I believe it is so important to take care of yourself and step out of your house feeling good about yourself every morning.

This outfit is one of my favorites to throw on when I want to feel and look my best without putting too much thought into it. I often wear a dress, booties, and fun kimono when I am running late or am too sleepy to put together an Instagram-approved look. The mesh floral kimono is a particular favorite of mine because I sewed it myself. Wearing something I made and designed myself brings my confidence to a new level because I am representing my own creativity and expressing my personal brand.

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I used to be guilty of teasing my cousin for spending hours primping herself just to drive to the doctor’s office or to a yoga class. Now I truly understand the difference in perception of my own self when I feel “cool”. I am confident, productive, unstoppable, and friendly when I know I look good and I like what I am wearing. If you can put the best version of yourself out in the world, why wouldn’t you?