Not Your Average Housewife

While I am definitely not a housewife (or anywhere close), I couldn’t help but feel like I was playing the role of a fabulously-dressed, nontraditional housewife as I pushed my grocery cart through aisles filled with potato chips and tomato sauce.

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This idea that women are the ones who do the grocery shopping for the family is still pretty prominent, but us millennial women are reshaping this role every day. We are quickly moving from the ones who bring home the groceries to the ones who bring home the dough. Thank god I’m not bringing groceries home anytime soon or my imaginary children would be eating a diet of purely potato chips.

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It ended up being quite ironic that I chose to wear this home-sewn jumpsuit for this photo shoot. Sewing used to be just another chore listed on the “to-do” list of a stereotypical housewife. However, it has now shaped itself into a hobby rather than a chore; a hobby many women unfortunately do not have the skill or desire necessary to learn.

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I have been sewing since I was 8 years old. The moment I picked up a sewing needle I knew it was something I would be hooked on for life. There is something so magical about being able to construct your own clothing and see your own designs come to life. In our modern age, those who know how to sew (like me) are those who are extremely passionate about art and design. It is something that is no longer viewed as a common skill but rather as a talent and an art. Just look at our society’s fascination with the television show “Project Runway”!

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This jumpsuit has quickly become one of my favorite things I have sewn because of its vintage vibes and perfectly tailored fit. I was able to find this ’70s-inspired plaid fabric at my local Jo-Ann Fabric store and the hardware at M&J Trimming in New York City. I modified McCall’s Pattern #7626 to include the buckle and grommet detailing.

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Don’t let gender stereotypes keep you from pursuing a hobby that you love. This is the age of change and breaking out of the gender roles that society assigned to us centuries ago. If you want to grocery shop in the most fabulous jumpsuit you own, who’s stopping you? If you are a man and want to learn to make your own suit jackets, who’s stopping you?

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The only answer to those questions is yourself. We are the only ones that limit ourselves to the roles society wants us to mold into. We are society and we determine the shape of these gender molds. Reshape your own mold. Get out there and break those gender roles.

Lipstick: Nars Pure Matte                                                     Earrings (similar): Forever 21

Jumpsuit: Madison Mae Designs

Similar Jumpsuits: Forever 21, Honey Punch, Banana Republic

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Embodying a Unique Style

When you walk into an antique shop or vintage store you are surrounded by one-of-a-kind pieces, each with their own stories to tell and hidden history. Shopping in these stores is an experience that brings you back in time, immersing you in a different time period.

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Cape May is home to antique stores filled with World War II memorabilia, old polaroids and advertisements from the 1960s. While of course I love going to the beach and soaking up the summer sun, exploring these antique shops is one of my favorite activities to do while at the Jersey Shore for the weekend.

When I visit these shops I am enlightened by all of the inspiration around me. Seeing something that speaks to me and is unique in its own way inspires me to recreate that essence in the outfits that I wear every day.

Each look that you put together tells its own story, not about the individual clothing items but about the person that is actually wearing them. It is the first thing people notice about you and the first thing they will use to make their judgements about you. Just as every antique item is one-of-a-kind your style should be as well.

Many people are afraid to stray away from what everyone else is wearing because they fear they will stand out too much. Ask yourself, is standing out really so bad if you are sharing your story with the world?

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I am encouraging you to visit your local Goodwill or your local antique shop. Seek inspiration and soak up the stories of the past that are there to tell. Then take this inspiration and infuse it into the clothing that you wear. Before putting on your clothes, ask yourself, what story am I willing to share with the world today?